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Can You Win Him Back After He Dumped You?

So you would like to know how to win your ex back or whether or not it’s even possible? There’s nothing to compare with the feelings of pain, sorrow, jealousy, anger, fear and hopelessness that you feel when faced with a break up, especially if there’s another woman on the scene. These are many of the emotions you will have encountered, I know: I’ve been there. But rest assured; this doesn’t necessarily mean it has to be the end! Did you know that 90% of broken relationships are usually fixed!

Before you decide to dive in headfirst and create a mess of things stop! Pay attention to some expert advice, there’s most certainly a right and a wrong way to go about things and you don’t want to ruin your chances do you?

When confronted with this situation what do you think most women do? Scream and cry or hurl abuse? Do you think this would help matters? I can’t see it somehow can you? No, me neither Well that’s something to avoid then! Take yourself away from the situation for a while, until you’ve calmed down and can focus. Even though you’re hurt and angry, you have to be in control of the situation.

The very first thing you need to do is give him some breathing space; accept that it’s over, at least for the time being, hold your head up high and wish him well. You should not resort to pursuing him, or calling him every minute of the day; you don’t wish him to think you’re desperate, or he won’t feel he’s lost something valuable.

You are sure to have mutual friends, but don’t be tempted to tell them what a SOB he has been, you know he’ll find out at some point. And more importantly, don’t say anything about his new girlfriend, otherwise he’ll end up defending her and you’ll push him further away.

After a set amount of time you will need to slowly start making friends with your ex again, not on an intimate level. You are seeking to become a close friend and confidante. Don’t talk about his new girlfriend but when he brings the subject up try to remain neutral that way he’ll feel he can trust you again and you’ll be the first one he will turn to when his new relationship starts to falter.

If you really need to win back your ex, the following point is very important. Think about what it was about you that your ex first fell in love with! Ask yourself some questions: was it your sunny disposition, your kind caring nature or your beaming smile? Whatever it was, do you still have it? If not you’ll have to focus on retrieving it. You’re going to have to find out how to become irresistible to him again. The good news is with the right advice is usually highly attainable!

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